Logically, I know that's the goal of being a mother is to nurture and guide my boys so they become kind, happy, self-sufficient adults. But emotionally, I'm grieving the childhood I've witnessed and been so integrally involved in the last 8 years I've been home with my kids. My boys growing up and moving onto the next stage is normal and expected, so I was surprised that this life change triggered such intense sense of loss. Confusing and crippling enough that I reached out to my therapist for help. The last time I saw my therapist was two years ago when she helped me through a family crisis. This time she helped me identify why I was feeling so crippled by sadness. I realized my feelings of sadness were not only about marking a milestone for my boys, but were wrapped up in my childhood feelings of instability when we moved away from where I felt settled and comfortable. We moved a lot when I was a child, so naturally this comfortable safe home/school environment I built for my kids, was now changing and it triggered a flood of fear, sadness and loss for me. I've done some work to honor these feelings, but I don't have a magic wand to wave over my head and say, "Abracadabra" to make it all disappear. I still have work to do, but I am on the mend. Most days I can see past sadness and see opportunity, in fact, yesterday, I seized the opportunity and played around with a Halloween idea and created this gorgeous violaceous Halloween appetizer. A dish called...Abracadabra Platter!
πππ 28 days until Halloweenπππ
Abracadabra Platter
Purple Cauliflower, cut into florets
Purple Carrots, cut into sticks
Blackberries
Blueberries
Purple Endive
Red Grapes
Black Grapes (Moon Drop Grapes)
Dried Figs
Pomegranate seeds
Kalamata olives
Trader Joe's® Blueberry Vanilla Goat Cheese
Trader Joe's® Creamy Toscano Cheese Soaked in Syrah
Trader Joe's ® 3 Seed Beet Crackers
Beet Hummus
3 beets, cooked and peeled
1 can black beans
1-2 cloves garlic
juice of 1 lime
1/4 tsp tandoori spice mix (or substitute 1/4 tsp garam masala)
1/2 tsp ginger
salt and cayenne pepper (to taste)
1 tsp olive oil
red cabbage leaf cup
Blend all ingredients in a food processor until smooth. Salt and pepper to taste. Serve in red cabbage leaf cup or small bowl. Drizzle with additional olive oil if desired. Arrange fruit vegetables and cheese by color and serve with your favorite crackers, bread and wine. Enjoy!
Here are some more pics of this gorgeous platter. :)
Other Halloween Ideas:
Amputated Appetizer Cheese Platter |
Eye of the Beholder Salad |
Antipasto de los Muertos |
I don't know if I can find all of these things, but it's a gorgeous inspiration!
ReplyDeleteThank you Volo! Happy Halloween!
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